Love Advices ♥

no matter how brokenhearted you are, never ever ask for another chance from that someone who left you.

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Because that person who left you will just think that you cannot make it without them. They will just think how easy it would be for them to get you back when they want to. So just to be fair to yourself, no matter how much it hurts, you must learn how to be strong and tell yourself not to care. Because by doing so, you’re teaching yourself how to move on fast. Try it, it’s effective.

make your girl the happiest girl in the world.

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Make her feel loved. Never ever make her feel left out. Make her feel special. You should never be ashamed when you’re with her. Because you once decided to court her, you agreed with life’s terms and conditions that you’re willing to love her. You extended lots of efforts just to hear her sweet yes, so you should never take her for granted especially if she returns the love you gave to her. Do not ever make her feel worthless because girls have sensitive hearts. She may show you that she’s strong but you never know how much she’s dying inside.

 Its okay to have a break in a relationship sometimes.

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You know, to end it up. Especially if the both of you are not in good terms most of the time. It’s when the two of you have nothing left to do but to argue and fight. Because what’s the sense of staying in a relationship where you cannot understand each other anymore? As cliche goes, “if you’re meant for each other, you’ll get back together”. Sometimes, we also need to learn that breaking up has good effects. It can let former couples decide if they made the right decision in their lives. And if ever they regret breaking up, it’s either they’re going to get back together for another chance, or they’re never gonna be together again learning that it will never work out anymore.

Give your partner a little space sometimes.

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By space, I mean, a time for himself/herself. A time to hang out with his/her friends, a time when you two don’t go to the malls to have a date. It’s healthy in a relationship that you give a little space sometimes. This is to let each other try to do something that they’ve been doing before they met you. It’s okay to let them play their computer games, or let them go to the parlor with their friends. Because in the end, you’re still the one he/she loves. They’re still going to end up going back to you. So why deprive them with time? Remember, the more you deprive your partner from doing something, the more he/she will walk away from you someday.

Its not about how long he courted you, its about how much he proved that he's worthy of you.

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It doesn’t mean that when a guy easily got the yes from the girl he’s courting, he doesn’t love her. Because it’s not about how long a guy courts a girl. It’s about how much he proved her that he loves her. Along the way, the two of them will learn little by little, the small details of each other’s personality, and entering a relationship doesn’t require anyone that you should have experienced at least a year of courtship. why? because guys have feelings too. Just because he courted you for so long, he loves you. Proving a girl that you love her is simply making her feel loved. You don’t need to be traditional. Just make her feel loved and special wholeheartedly, without any bad intentions, it will be fine. A relationship with a good foundation lasts long.

Guys, there will come a time when girls will get tired loving you.

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Just because you know how much she loves you doesn’t mean you should take her for granted. Remember, girls are also humans, they have feelings too. They have a very sensitive heart. So don’t play around. Just because she loves you so much now doesn’t mean that she will forever be a sick pawn in your game. There will come a time when the damage is too much and your sorry won’t be effective anymore. So take care of your girlfriends. It’s hard to find a partner who will love you differently.